Freebies galore!

Saturday, October 22, 2011

Good news! Lil Watermelon is engaged as at 37 wks 5 days!!! WOOHOO! Have forgotten to ask the gynae is it's in the posterior or Anterior position. Am hoping that it'd be the latter. It's a wonderful and relieving news however, at the same time, it being only Day 2 of my rest day, I'm really hoping the lil one will allow mommy to rest a little more before deciding to make her appearance! I sooo need to sleep!!!

Have been running loads of last minute errands and making sure things are in place. Confinement stuff have been settled. Namely:
  1. Herbs (30 packets compliments from the MIL!! WOOHOO!! i can bathe everyday if i like!)
  2. Klorane Dry shampoo
  3. Pads pads and more pads!! (apparently one can bleed anything from 5 days to 2 mths after giving birth!)
  4. Disposable gloves (in case i need to touch water during the first month)
  5. Liquid disinfectant (hygiene is still important even though we aren't allowed to touch water. A myth which I choose to abide....don't wish for those aches and pains to haunt me in future!)
The hospital bag has been packed. More or less I guess...though somehow there's still a slight unsettled feeling. Mommy matters settled, now for baby. Below are some freebies to share:

Diaper Sample
Drypantz / Drypers Diaper 1800 466 3002
http://www.drypers.com.sg/#/request-sample
Fitti / Pet Pet Diaper 6861 9155
Huggies / Pull Up Pants / Little Swimmers Diaper 1800 484 4437 http://www.huggies.com.sg/free-sample.aspx
Mamypoko / Pull Up Pants Diaper 6265 1648
Goo.N Diapers – Register and get a free sample of the Goo.N Diaper.

Milk Powder Sample
I shall monitor the breastmilk flow before requesting for any. Am really hoping that things will work out nicely.
(Mamil series) Milk www.dumex.com.sg
NutriLine at 1800 265 3188
Friso Milk http://www.friso.com.sg
Friso hotline at 64198484
contactus@friso.com.sg
Abbott (Similac / Gain / Grow / Pediasure / Isomil) Milk http://www.abbott.com.sg/family/free_sample.asp Wyeth (Promil Gold / Progress Gold / Promise Gold) Milk http://www.wyethnutrition.com.sg
1800-6886886
Nestle – You can’t ask for free samples over the Internet for nestle. But there’s a customer service number which you can call to ask for NAN sample and Brown Rice/White Rice cereal samples. Updated on 21 March 2011 – You can now join Nestle Baby Club and request to be sent a NANPRO or NAN-HA when baby turns 6 months old!
Mead Johnson (Enfa series) Milk http://www.meadjohnsonasia.com/
Enfa – Here’s the Enfapro, Enfagrow & Enfakid or Enfamama milk powder. If you sign up as the club member, they will send you a 400g tin of milk powder when your baby is 6 months old. After which, they will send 2 packets of the 1 year old milk powder. But if I remember correctly, their membership has an expiry date.
Karihome goats milk Milk Punggol Plaza 2nd floor kids shop

Others (Baby Stuff)

√ Depending on which hospital you gave birth to your child, you will get a Bag of Love or the Baby Plus guidebook. Check out here.

√ If you are staying in the southwest district, you can get a babybliss cash-card valued at $38! This amount is good for paying off some ERP or car park charges right?! For those who do not drive, you can buy your baby items and pay off using the cash-card. Check out details here.

Sanitary Pads

Kao Laurier

Fennel


You may call me a cheapo but having a kid is no joke at all, especially when the mommy herself is high-maintenance. Thank goodness for the host of resources! On an entirely separate note, empress dowager has informed that she'd be going on tour to JB on Nov 6 which is supposedly my EDD and the hubs has pre-empted me that he needs to travel from Nov 14-15. Talk about having pre-post-natal blues!!! I really hope and pray that all will go well and it's not wishful thinking that everything's gonna be a breeze.

We have come this far

Sunday, October 16, 2011

Week 36 and the clock is ticking into Week 37.
Finally, we are done with our antenatal class. The last being on the topic of marriage enrichment. Throughout, the dear hubs was oblivious and engrossed in his iphone. The bane of technology. I dont blame him. Marriage isn't something that can be "taught"...it's a lesson in life which all must go through. No textbook will prepare one for the ups and downs in marriage. Suffice to say, whenever whatever we go through together must be taken in stride. However, an interesting question asked by the coordinator: What are your primary concerns when the baby comes along? An array of answers were given: will there be us time? who will look after the baby? ....The same thought was probably swimming in both hub's and my mine: how are we gonna handle our finances? After the class, I asked him if this was the thought that struck him and why didn't anyone raise this important question? His answer -- coz everyone's egoistic. True.

Well, there's no use mulling over such a thing and having a kid sure comes with a truckload of sacrifice. There's no 30-day moneyback guarantee, store or return policy or 1-for-1 exchange for a new model/ colour.

The weekend has been an extremely fulfilling one -- Decorated the nursery, washed nappies (2nd last load); attended the last antenatal class; celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary over a good dinner @ La Cantina and presented ourselves with a memorable gift -- took some really good maternity shots. As reluctant as he was, the hub was a good sport and went along. With this lil watermelon besotted to us, before she makes her grand entrance, I thought we should really capture the moment (even though it came with a hefty price tag!)

Other developments:
face and hair seemingly getting oilier as we progress into the last lap
Lil watermelon has grown to a whopping 2.7kg
Feet and fingers are in a state of water-retention (can't wear my wedding band and none of my heels fit!)
Calves are not spared too...none of my jeans go beyond the calves!
Feeling very sleepy most of the time
Am hoping the wriggling action will not end and continue for a longer time :)




The nursery has come together finally! green's good for the lil one's eyes. See the little details: rabbits hopping around? I can also mark lil bub's height on the leaves with chalk. Lovely idea! Now i just need to work on my little mushrooms...probably my one mth confinement project if I have the energy and time!




Jane (the photographer) was really good at creating the mood. The hub isn't great at smiling with teeth showing whilst I'm the exact opposite.

Oh man! the stretchmarks!! URGH


Looking like I'm carrying a basketball!







One of my favourite shots!
Looks like some ad for Motherhood or Young Parents


Finally a less serious and comic shot from the hub!

There are several more "obscenely artistic" shots. This is by far my most daring attempt. The hub wasn't too supportive though. The photographer had to tell him not to show the "black face" when he's home. But beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder...when we saw the raw photos, he was pretty pleased.

It's quite a weird feeling and the whole parents-to-be feeling hasn't really sunk in. But I think what we want to achieve as parents will soon begin to crystalise within our minds.

Thank you for 14 years of crazy years! I love you dear!

Unpredictability in Babies - Bathing & more

Saturday, October 8, 2011

Taking notice of the little details make me light up. Even though the hubs isn't with me for the last 2 wks, my little cantaloupe is enthusiastically keeping me company and not to mention awake. It's fun to keep track of how she grows and in the blink of an eye, I'm moving into wk 36!! OMG! somebody shoot me! It's been 9 mths already? This is moving all too fast!

The last two weeks had been utterly overwhelming. That might have been an understatement. With the hub travelling intensely, I had to attend the antenatal classes myself. Thankfully the hubs managed to catch the class on labour where the various pain-relief methods were shared. During the video screening, both of us looked at each other with fear sketched on our faces. Crimson red blood isn't our thing, but sweet enough, the hub said he will be there for me. Let's hope and pray that isn't lip service. Despite close gfs offering to go with me and hinting to the SIL that I needed company (only to receive no reply on the matter), I decided to be the independent woman of the millennium and drive myself to Mt A for class. It's really no laughing matter to be driving at this stage. Getting in and out of the car is beginning to be a chore. Ingesting heaps of new info after a long day at work is also brain-draining. I've even resorted to snapping a video of bathing the newborn as my brain was simply on standby mode. Information was so overloading that we ran into overtime and the whole lesson lasted for 2.5hours instead of 2hours. By the time I headed home and had dinner, it was already 930pm. Considerably early compared to if I were to be working -- a consolation much?

During the whole time, hubbies were whipping up their iphones, taking shots of their wives practising the cradle hold or the football hold while I wallow in self-pity. Ok, I didn't really have the strength to dwell on that but indeed, loneliness was enveloping me. The only shot I managed to take was of the fake doll. I didn't want to look like a crazy woman trying to camwhore with a doll. Like I mentioned before, this whole journey seems to be a PHD. The amount of information and books given by others have not even been 1/4 touched. Sadly, I'm not much of a reader. Solution- To compile whatever I have learnt in bite size. Here's some to share:
Interesting note to self: If baby has the cradle cap, apply olive oil. Myth or fact? hmmmm..

Meanwhile, checklist:
Hospital bag 80% packed
Baby closet packed
Decor for nursery & playpen -- arrived but still in incubation
Pre-admission hospitalisation form -- to be submitted
Name for little cantaloupe -- Still working on it

Somehow, no matter how prepared one is, there's this feeling of settlement. But for now, I shall just embrace the love and company of my love one and look forward to an exciting time next week! It's gonna be a special moment next wkend! :)

"LIFE IS TOO UNPREDICTABLE TO LIVE BY A SCHEDULE

THE COURSE OF LIFE IS UNPREDICTABLE. NO ONE CAN WRITE HIS AUTOBIOGRAPHY IN ADVANCE"



Nesting instincts

Wednesday, September 14, 2011

At Week 32,

MUMMY is:


  • Very tired due to the extensive amount of work
  • A little worried that she can't cope
  • Not sleeping too well as the lungs are compressed
  • Can't sleep sideways coz baby likes to rock and roll
  • Easily frustrated by scheduling problems (pre-preg or not, this is still frustrating)
  • Still working till an average of 10pm and settling down only at 1 / 2am
  • Feels very unprepared and unsettled
  • Sweating like a pig
  • Has not completed the antenatal classes
  • Engross in getting cutie stuff for lil bub
  • Very grateful for the help from people who are not close. On the contrary, am disappointed that all those close (apart from the MIL) has not contributed in anyway. Just a note: one parent called to say she has an infant seat to pass on; another parent passed on some bottles; n another said she wanted to buy a pram for me!! (which I rejected of coz!)...but am definitely counting my blessings

DADDY is:
  • Still having travel plans at the end of the month and early October
  • Still not buying the expendables and start on the washing process
  • Thinks there's 2 more months and heaps of time
  • Fearing that he won't have time for golf and is desperately trying to golf on a Sunday (a day when we are suppose to get our act together)
  • Sleeping much earlier than mummy

Lil Bub is
  • now a honeydew (estimated size of 48cm and 2kg -- will have to verify this Friday)
  • Pushing a whole lot due to the lack of space (it's a really comforting feeling and feel very blessed. It's a blessing which is very well disguised)

Gratitude, like faith, is a muscle. The more you use it, the stronger it grows, and the more power you have to use it on your behalf. If you do not practice gratefulness, its benefaction will go unnoticed, and your capacity to draw on its gifts will be diminished. To be grateful is to find blessings in everything, This is the most powerful attitude to adopt, for there are blessings in everything.
Alan Cohen

The Nursery for little lettuce

Monday, September 12, 2011

The arrival of lil lettuce is drawing near and the aesthetic part of me really hope to revamp a little corner for the lil one. Imagine having the cherubic angelic smile could melt even the most hardened heart. I envision the pink little lips pouted as the lil one would demand for my attention. Can u imagine the baby gurgling with delight at the toy dangling above his cot, babbling nonsensically to himself while playing with the mobile.

Been researching a bit and found loads of inspiration. Inspiration I've got, but time is a little lacking.
Chalkboard wall for the lil one to draw in future. A little hesitant though, as chalk = dust = allergy?

Am having the above customised. Very excited!!

Aiming to get these mushrooms done. Inspired by http://www.ikeahackers.net/search/label/children?updated-max=2011-05-16T09%3A14%3A00-04%3A00&max-results=20

Another inspiration from Ikea Hackers. However, the amount of space would not be enough for the amount of books I have!

The hub managed to fit the curtain rod into my book shelf and converted it to a baby closet! YEAH! I can start washing all the pwetty dresses and displaying them! Imagine a walk-in closet for a newborn! LUCKY THING!

The mountain of books I have amassed over the years have grown. I can't seem to throw as they are my bread and butter. The solution -- Buy another BILLY from Ikea! It was such achievement to fill them up! (oh no...that means I can't buy anymore!)

Really love this tree but it's retailing at approximately $800!


Adorable much? But hmm why do I need it?

Antenatal Lesson 2 - Physiotherapy


I've done so much the last few days, I feel somewhat accomplished! With so much on my plate, it's really important to pace myself.

The massive amount of prep work done on Sunday! 4 full hours. Felt so drained at the end of it but looked forward to comedy date with the hub at 1030pm. Had a really good night's sleep that day.

Session two was on Physio..something which I really look forward to. Unfortunately, the massage bit was a tad disappointing. They emphasized more on touch. A sensual aspect between couples. The hub and I aren't exactly sensual when it comes to hardcore massage and the fact that I'm really aching, I really don't appreciate such techniques. Thankfully the hub knows me best and exerted the right pressure and skill on me :)

As a reminder to self, I've posted the notes given by the hospital:







At the end of the session, I asked if there's any cure for upper backpain which has been nagging me insanely every night. Seems like upper back is not as common as lower back thus there isn't much one can do. The gynae attributed this to poor posture. Yes, I'm guilty of it, but seriously I just need to slouch at times. Carrying a basketball, walking and driving myself around isn't exactly the most luxurious thing. I'm also suspecting that i'm having mild Pelvic Girdle Pain. Pregnancy related Pelvic Girdle Pain (PGP) causes pain, instability and limitation of mobility and functioning in any of the three pelvic joints.The affection appears to consist of relaxation of the pelvic articulations, becoming apparent suddenly after parturition or gradually during pregnancy and permitting a degree of mobility of the pelvic bones which effectively hinders locomotion and gives rise to the most peculiar and alarming sensations.

A combination of postural changes, the growing baby, unstable pelvic joints under the influence of pregnancy hormones and changes in the centre of gravity can all add to the varying degrees of pain or discomfort.

PGP can begin as early as the first trimester of pregnancy. Pain is usually felt low down over the symphyseal joint, this area may be extremely tender to the touch. Pain may also be felt in the hips, groin and lower abdomen and can radiate down the inner thighs. You may waddle or shuffle, and may be aware of an audible clicking sound coming from the pelvis. PGP can develop slowly during pregnancy, gradually gaining in severity as the pregnancy progresses.

During pregnancy and postpartum, the symphyseal gap can be felt moving and/or straining when walking, climbing stairs and turning over in bed. These activities can be difficult or even impossible. Pain may remain static, i.e. in one place such as the front of the pelvis producing the feeling of having been kicked, in other cases it may start in one area and move to other areas, you may even experience a combination of symptoms. Any weight bearing activity has the potential of aggravating an already unstable pelvis producing symptoms that may limit the ability for the woman to carry out many daily activities. She will experience pain involving movements such as dressing, getting in and out of the bath, rolling in bed, climbing the stairs and sexual activity. Pain will also be present when lifting, carrying, pushing or pulling.


Severity

The severity and instability of the pelvis can be measured on a three level scale.

Pelvic type 1:The pelvic ligaments support the pelvis sufficiently. Even when the muscles are used incorrectly, no complaints will occur when performing everyday activities. This is the most common situation in persons who have never been pregnant, who have never been in an accident, and who are not hyperactive.

Pelvic type 2:The ligaments alone do not support the joint sufficiently. A coordinated use of muscles around the joint will compensate for ligament weakness. In case the muscles around the joint do not function, the patient will experience pain and weakness when performing everyday activities. This kind of pelvic often occurs after giving birth to a child weighing 3000 grams or more, in case of hyperactivity, and sometimes after an accident involving the pelvis. Type 2 is the most common form of pelvic instability. Treatment is based on learning how to use the muscles around the pelvis more efficiently.

Pelvic type 3:The ligaments do not support the joint sufficiently. This is a serious situation whereby the muscles around the joint are unable to compensate for ligament weakness. This type of pelvic instability usually only occurs after an accident, or occasionally after a (small) accident in combination with giving birth. Sometimes a small accident occurring long before giving birth is forgotten so that the pelvic instability is attributed only to the childbirth. Although the difference between Type 2 and 3 is often difficult to establish, in case of doubt an exercise program may help the patient. However, if Pelvic Type 3 has been diagnosed then invasive treatment is the only option: in this case parts of the pelvis are screwed together.

Causes

Sometimes there is no obvious explanation for the cause of PGP but usually there is a combination of factors such as:

  1. The pelvic joints moving unevenly.
  2. A change in the activity of the muscles in the pelvis, hip, abdomen, back and pelvic floor.
  3. A history of pelvic trauma.
  4. The position of the baby altering the loading stresses on the pelvic ligaments and joints.
  5. Strenuous work.
  6. Previous lower back pain.
  7. Previous pelvic girdle pain during pregnancy.
  8. Hypermobility, genetical ability to stretch joints beyond normal range.
  9. An event during the pregnancy or birth that caused injury or strain to the pelvic joints or rupture of the fibrocartilage.
  10. The occurrence of PGP is associated with twin pregnancy, first pregnancy and a higher age at first pregnancy.

Treatment

Once a diagnosis of pgp has been made there are various treatments that can be applied. One of the main factors in helping women cope with the condition is with education, information and support. Other coping strategies include physical medicine and rehabilitation, physiotherapy, osteopathy, chiropractic, psychologist, prolo therapy or platelet-rich plasma therapy, massage therapy, acupuncture and alternative medicine. Mobility aids such as a wheelchair, walker, elbow crutches and walking stick can be very useful. Medication dispensed by a qualified health care provider can also be used to manage:

Some pelvic joint trauma will not respond to conservative type treatments and orthopedic surgery might become the only option to stabilize the joints.

Self help management

Self help management techniques include:

  • When getting into bed sit on the edge keeping knees close together, lie down on your side, lifting both legs at the same time. Reverse this to get up.
  • Try not to attempt to pull yourself up from lying on your back.
  • Keep knees together when rolling over in bed.
  • Sleep with a pillow between the legs; add more in other areas for support.
  • When getting into a car: Sit down first and then swing legs keeping them together.
  • Avoid sofas and chairs that are too low or too soft.
  • Try to reduce the stress on the joint.
  • Avoid any movement with your knees apart.
  • Take smaller steps when walking.
  • Avoid stairs if possible.
  • Take breaks.
  • Move within the limits of pain.
  • Avoid twisting, bending or squatting.

Many women find floating in a heated pool relieves the pain.

I should seriously and consciously do more stretches. The walking from house to house doesn't amount to a significant amount of exercise it seems. But given my current energy level, all I want is to veg out on the bed and sleep! Sleep-- a luxury it seems! Note to self: not to eat too much durians! For the last 6 mths I hadn't touched any, but last Saturday, I feasted on durians! Wrong move! That very night, my lungs felt extremely compressed and I was sweating in profusion despite the fan being blasted at me. Frustration really mounted when I tossed and turned from 2-6am and finally getting an eye shut for about 2hrs whilst sitting upright.

Keeping calm

Monday, September 5, 2011

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